How ACT Helps With Anxiety: Panic, Health Anxiety, GAD & Doomscrolling

Anxiety doesn’t just live in your head. It shows up in your body, your behaviour, your sleep, your scrolling habits — and in the quiet rules you may have started to live by about what feels safe.

Panic. Health anxiety. Generalised anxiety. Doomscrolling.

They can look different on the surface, but underneath they often run on the same engine: a mind trying desperately to protect you by controlling uncertainty.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) offers a different, kinder way forward.

What Is ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy)?

ACT (said as one word: act) is an evidence-based therapy developed by Steven Hayes and widely taught by clinicians such as Russ Harris. It sits within the CBT family but takes a notably different stance.

Instead of asking “How do I get rid of anxiety?” ACT asks:

“How can I live a meaningful life, even when anxiety shows up?”

The goal isn’t to eliminate anxious thoughts or feelings, but to stop them from running your life.

For further reading, you might explore Steven Hayes’ books on ACT or Russ Harris’ practical guides for helpful exercises and metaphors.

Why Anxiety Gets Stuck

Most anxiety problems are unintentionally maintained by struggle and avoidance:

• Monitoring your body for danger
• Googling symptoms for reassurance
• Avoiding places that trigger panic
• Mentally rehearsing worst-case scenarios
• Scrolling the news to feel ‘prepared’

Russ Harris uses the tug-of-war with a monster metaphor. Anxiety is the monster on the other end of the rope. The harder you pull, the harder it pulls back. ACT teaches you how to drop the rope.

A Brief Case Vignette: The Bus Ride

Imagine you’re driving a bus. You’re the driver — your life, your direction.

Anxiety jumps on board as a loud, convincing passenger:

“You’re about to panic.”
“What if this symptom means something serious?”
“You should check the news — what if you miss something important?”

For a long time, you stop the bus whenever anxiety shouts. You argue with it, reassure it, or wait until it quietens down.

ACT teaches you something radical: you don’t have to throw the passenger off the bus. You can let it shout and still drive where you choose to go.

How ACT Helps Different Forms of Anxiety

Panic Disorder

With panic, the problem isn’t anxiety itself — it’s the fear of anxiety.

ACT helps you:

• Make room for racing heart, dizziness, and breathlessness
• Stop treating panic sensations as emergencies
• Rebuild trust in your body

Instead of “I must calm down”, the stance becomes:

“I can feel this and still cope.”

Health Anxiety

Health anxiety is driven by certainty-seeking.

ACT works by:

• Reducing compulsive checking and reassurance-seeking
• Helping you step back from catastrophic health thoughts
• Building tolerance for uncertainty

Thoughts shift from facts to mental events:

“I’m having the thought that something is wrong with me.”

That distance matters.

Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD)

GAD often feels like nonstop mental problem-solving.

ACT helps by:

• Untangling you from worry loops
• Bringing attention back to the present moment
• Reconnecting you with what matters beyond ‘what if’

Worry stops being your full-time job.

Doomscrolling

Doomscrolling is a modern form of threat monitoring.

ACT doesn’t shame this behaviour — it makes sense. Your nervous system is trying to stay safe.

ACT helps you:

• Notice the urge to scroll without automatically obeying it
• Name the function (control, reassurance, avoidance)
• Choose values-based limits around news and social media

You regain choice, rather than being pulled by urgency.

The Core ACT Skills (In Plain English)

ACT builds psychological flexibility through six overlapping skills:

• Acceptance – making space for anxiety instead of fighting it
• Defusion – stepping back from anxious thoughts
• Present-moment awareness – coming out of imagined futures
• Self-as-context – remembering you are more than anxiety
• Values – clarifying what really matters to you
• Committed action – taking small steps toward a meaningful life

You don’t need to master all six. Small shifts make a real difference.

What ACT Is (and Isn’t)

ACT is not about:

• Positive thinking
• Forcing exposure
• Pretending anxiety doesn’t exist

ACT is about:

• Compassion
• Practical skills
• Living well, not symptom-free

As Russ Harris puts it, the aim isn’t to feel good — it’s to live well.

A Different Relationship With Anxiety

When anxiety is no longer in charge:

• Panic loses its power
• Health fears soften
• Worry no longer dominates
• Doomscrolling becomes a choice, not a compulsion

ACT helps you build a life that is wider, richer, and more meaningful — with anxiety along for the ride, not at the wheel.

Further Resources

• Steven Hayes’ ACT books and resources
• Russ Harris’ practical ACT guides
• ACT Mindfully website

If you’re struggling with panic, health anxiety, chronic worry, or doomscrolling, ACT offers a grounded, compassionate way forward — one that focuses on how you want to live, not just how you want to feel.

Grief and Healing

Learning to live with loss, one gentle moment at a time

Grief asks a lot of us.
It can feel heavy, confusing, tender, and exhausting — sometimes all at once.
When someone or something important changes or leaves our lives, our world shifts, and it takes time to find our footing again.

Grief is not a sign that something is wrong with you.
It is a sign that you loved, that you cared, and that something mattered deeply.

There is no need to rush.
There is no timeline you have to meet.

You are allowed to take your time.

Grief Comes in Many Forms

We often think of grief after a death, and that kind of loss touches us profoundly.
But grief can appear in many moments of life, such as:

• The end of a relationship or friendship

• A change in health or ability

• Children growing up and leaving home

• Retirement or a loss of identity or routine

• Losing a job or direction

• The death of a pet

• Letting go of dreams or hopes that didn’t happen

Grief can feel like sadness, tiredness, worry, numbness, or simply a sense that life has shifted in a way we didn’t choose.
All of these experiences are valid.

Grief Moves Gently and Slowly

You may have heard about “stages of grief.” These ideas can sometimes help, but they don’t always match real life. Most people move through grief like waves — forward and back, soft then strong, quiet then overwhelming.

Some days may feel heavy.
Other days you may feel moments of peace or even laughter.
Both are part of grief. Both are allowed.

Researchers have also learned that healthy grief often involves moving gently between:

• Feeling the loss — remembering, crying, sitting with emotions

• Taking breaks — resting, doing everyday tasks, connecting with life again

This rhythm is natural.
You don’t have to be in your feelings all the time, and taking breaks does not mean you are forgetting or “moving on.”
It simply means you are human.

Giving Yourself Permission

You don’t have to be strong every day.
You don’t have to feel okay before you are ready.
You don’t have to compare your grief with anyone else’s.

Grief isn’t a test. It is not a race.
It is an experience — and it unfolds in its own time.

When you can, try to offer yourself kindness.
Allow space for whatever arises: sorrow, love, confusion, gratitude, longing, exhaustion.

Small acts of gentleness can help:

• Resting when your body asks for it

• Letting yourself cry if tears come

• Talking to someone who feels safe

• Sitting quietly with memories

• Stepping outside for fresh air

• Keeping your days simple and soft

You are allowed to care for yourself.

When Support Can Help

Grief is natural — and there is no shame in needing extra support.
If you feel overwhelmed, stuck, or very low for a long time, reaching out can bring comfort and relief.

Speaking with someone who truly listens — a counsellor, a support group, or a kind friend — can help you feel less alone.

Reading suggestion

Wilson, J. (2020). The Plain Guide to Grief. York.

This is a very good book that explains in plain language what you can expect in the weeks, months, and years after loss.  It also explains the loss of a loved one during COVID-19.

Chapters 6 and 7 address the life changing illness/surgery and grieving other losses.

Loss of career, a pet, health, friendship, relationship break up, retirement.

It also explains the different models of grief.

The following websites have lots of information about grief and loss.

https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/guides-to-support-and-services/bereavement/about-bereavement/

https://www.cruse.org.uk/understanding-grief/

If you would like to book an appointment with me or ask for more information. Please contact me via email or phone. Click on ‘Contact Me’ underneath this blog

Everyone has intrusive thoughts, and anyone who says they don’t is fibbing. The difference is that, for most people, they are passing thoughts. But when people like you and I have intrusive thoughts, it feels very different; because they constantly repeat and we ruminate upon them, they become stuck in our minds. Some of us have sticky minds. It’s thought that this stickiness can run in families.  So if our parents are anxious types (through no fault of their own), this could rub off on you. 

Anxiety, Depression and the Dark Side of ‘The Most Wonderful Time of the Year.’

I don’t want to sound like The Grinch or Ebenezer Scrooge, but as my friends and family know, I’m not a fan of Christmas. ‘Bah! Humbug!’ If you have similar feelings.   I want to let you know there’s nothing wrong with you; it’s entirely natural and normal not to feel excited at the thought of the coming festivities.

I’m not a complete curmudgeon. I do enjoy having a Christmas tree and a few decorations around  (but not too early). It seems to me, and I know I am not alone, that the Christmas build up seems to be getting earlier every year, with lights and decorations being put up when Halloween is barely over (Halloween! That’s a story for another day).  From the beginning of November, maybe earlier, the aisles of the supermarkets are filled with booze and chocolates. 

For some of us, this can spark anxious feelings or highlight that we are depressed and that we don’t feel we are part of this frenzied excitement. We may dread Christmas for many reasons; some of us have been bereaved, and a relationship may have broken down. Maybe some are in danger of losing their jobs and are wondering where they’ll find the money for the extra expense of Christmas food, presents for children, and wider family.

All of this can exacerbate feelings of anxiety and depression; Christmas can make us feel more cut off from everyone.  We might have social anxiety, which is made worse by the thought of having to socialise with people we only meet at holiday times.  Some of us just enjoy our own company, and the thought of having to be with lots of others fills us with horror.  

This time of the year can throw things into sharp focus. It may be the first year your adult children aren’t coming for lunch. In the case of parents’ separation, it may not be your day for having the children over or there may be squabbles over who they will be with. All of this can add to the pressure of trying to have the perfect Christmas, which doesn’t actually exist.  There may be those around you telling you not to be so miserable, ‘it’s Christmas!’ which can bring about feelings of shame and guilt because you are unable to muster up the same enthusiasm. 

On a serious note, families being cooped up for this extended time can start to feel irritable with each other. Old grievances come up and rows break out.   The alcohol flows, which can make domestic violence worse. Too much alcohol can also contribute to feelings of anxiety and regret the morning after.

It can be particularly difficult if you are experiencing loss of any kind. You may feel you want to spend the day alone, which, naturally, friends and family will be unhappy about. Maybe compromise and say you’ll call in for lunch, but will go home when you feel you need to. Although if you want to be alone for the day, it’s absolutely ok to do what suits you. This is about your feelings.

 Remember, you have the right to say ‘no’ to things you don’t want to do. If you feel you need a break from the crowd for any reason, you have the right to step out for as long as you need without justifying yourself.  If you want to just go away somewhere and not celebrate Christmas, then be damned and do it. I know that’s not easy to do, so I’ve posted some links on learning how to say ‘no’. Ditch the guilt about dreading Christmas. 

There are so many expectations put upon us. That we’ll entertain guests, accept invites; Christmas can be especially gruelling for the person who prepares the dinner, sits down for 5 minutes to eat it, fakes a happy smile and mutters ‘merry Christmas’  through gritted teeth whilst the rest of the family enjoy themselves and disappear when it’s time to clear away the debris. Vowing they will never host another Christmas (but they always do).

Then comes Boxing Day, when we realise how much we’ve spent on everything and how much food is left over. The baubles are dropping off the Christmas tree, there’s wrapping paper screwed up in the bin, and the dog has been sick by the back door from all the naughty treats passed to him under the table the day before.

The Christmas season is never going to go away, but there are ways of making things more manageable. Some of our friends and family will want to keep things the way they’ve always been, possibly because they aren’t willing to take on the mantle of being responsible for organising the festivities, but everything changes and now maybe the time to talk about new traditions. These new traditions can be whatever you want them to be, but make sure they don’t include you cooking, unless of course you want to…it’s your choice.

With regard to spending, maybe make a conscious decision not to go overboard with food and presents.  Forward plan what you will actually need and want, so you don’t get so much of the post Christmas regret at having spent so much and the anxiety about the credit card bill in January. Naturally put some luxuries in; they don’t have to be too expensive. Take away the agony of writing Christmas cards to everyone (they probably won’t notice anyway) and give the money you would have spent to a charity instead.

I realise that Christmas can be a cause for celebration and that many enjoy all of it, especially with children. But, is there really a need to give presents to everyone and their dog? Last year, I saw a video of Martyn Lewis, the Money Man,  about giving presents, which totally put things into perspective for me.  I’ve posted the YouTube link below. Again, if you want to give lots of presents, that’s your choice too. 

Maybe you just feel too exhausted, burnt out, and depressed to drag the decorations out of the attic! Perhaps you feel you’d like to crawl into the attic and hide with the decorations until it’s all over 

(I’ll join you. No mince pies, mind).

I’m sure there’s lots more I could write about.  I’ve added some links below that might be helpful. None of this blog is meant to tell anyone what they should or should not do. We all have our own thoughts and ideas. These are mine, I hope you enjoy reading and that they give you something to think about.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/liking-the-child-you-love/202407/how-to-say-no-without-feeling-guilty

Martin Lewis’ Christmas Message In 2018 [14-11-2023]

https://happiful.com/5-ways-to-resist-overconsumption-and-create-your-own-perfect-version-of-christmas

https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/christmas-and-mental-health/why-christmas-is-hard/

https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/your-stories/coping-with-depression-and-anxiety-at-christmas/

What is It?

The idea was first researched in 1978 by two psychologists Dr Pauline R Clance and Dr Suzanne A Imes.  Based on their research they found it to be more common in women.  More recent research has found it to be equally spread between the sexes; up to 70% of us will feel it at some time in some situations. 

It’s a feeling that if we’ve achieved something it couldn’t have been that hard and we must have had good luck or help. We tend to discount the hard work we’ve done.  It can wax and wane depending on our life circumstances.

What does it feel like?

Sometimes, when we take on something new, maybe at work. Maybe, our first thought is ‘who me? I can’t do that, what do I know?’ We may feel slightly sick and anxious and have  thoughts like ‘oh no, if I do this everyone will see me as a fraud and think I’m getting above my station.’

How can we recognise it? Are there triggers?

When we start to compare ourselves with others and start to look at taking more qualifications in our chosen field, even though it doesn’t make us better at our jobs. Although this is not always a bad thing we need to ask ourselves why we are doing it? Is it fear of not knowing everything; maybe doubt that the talents and qualifications we already have are not enough? Then we hear the negative inner voice that starts telling us, ‘you don’t deserve this, you don’t belong here, wait until people find out who you really are.’

External Influences, where does it originate?

 In counselling we talk about ‘conditions of worth’ which we all pick up from the day we are born. These ‘conditions of worth’ are things we are told such as, ‘be good, do well at school, make us proud, work hard.’ Our parents might unintentionally compare us to other children who are on a higher reading book or are doing better in their spelling or maths tests. This can lead us to think that we are only worthy if we achieve, and that we are not worthy if we fail, or don’t know everything. We tend to hold success as a value and if we aren’t ‘on top of our game’ imposter syndrome can start to creep in and undermine us.

Social media can also impact us, if we start comparing ourselves to others who are in the same field and feel that they are doing better than us, this can bring about lack of self belief, and confidence.

Might be better to wish them well and remember there is room enough for us all.

Who is more susceptible to Imposter Syndrome

Those of us with perfectionist tendencies seem to be more susceptible because we tend to pressure ourselves to do everything perfectly . Those with IS tend to be very successful, well qualified  and well thought of but often feel that they aren’t as good as others think and that it’s only a matter of time before they are found out, any failure can feel crushing.

How limiting can this be if left unchecked?

This can limit our lives, as we may feel scared to be visible in case we are criticised or that others think we have ideas ‘above our station.’ There is also the fear that if we are successful we won’t be able to cope with the extra responsibility, that we may get overwhelmed or that we just aren’t good enough; impostor syndrome might tell you that you have no right to put yourself out there. That you don’t belong in that job, or with that group of people.  All of this can lead to perfectionism and procrastination.

We need to be aware of how the pressure to succeed can affect our physical and mental health. There is a link between imposter syndrome and burnout, as those with imposter syndrome try to do everything perfectly; we book ourselves on more courses, buy more books that we never get the chance to read, in order to be the expert on what we are doing, incase someone asks us something we don’t know and uncovers us as the fraud we ‘know’ we are.

 Personal boundaries are very important, making time for work and your personal life is important so that we don’t burn out. This can mean simple things like not answering work related emails, messages before or after a certain time. Taking regular time off and not using it to do work. 

Don’t ignore feelings of being overwhelmed, it’s a sign that you are taking on too much, and that’s when imposter syndrome can really start to get a grip, by telling you how useless, lazy, inept you are, and that others can cope, so what is wrong with you?

What can we do about it? How do we get over the fact that everything doesn’t have to be perfect? Can we change our mindset regarding imposter syndrome?

I’m not sure we can ever completely rid ourselves of imposter but we can change our mindset on how we feel about it.  The first step is recognising when we are having the thoughts of being a fraud, and to remember that almost everyone will have those moments of self doubt. It’s part of being human.  

How do we know when the need to continually learn is problematic?

There is a term known as ‘shiny object syndrome’ where we go off track because we are attracted by something that looks new and exciting and we just have to find out more about it, regardless of all the other shiny things we have on the go, resulting in lots of unfinished projects which can then lead to feeling unworthy because we start to feel overwhelmed, lazy and inept again.

Although self development is important we need to make sure it doesn’t get mixed up with our self-worth; that we are not doing it just to feel better about ourselves.

A good way to decide whether you really need to do this new thing is to note it (ideas notebook etc) and then ponder it for a few days, or even a week. Think about why you want to do this new thing, what benefit will it give to you and your life?  Choose one thing at a time, try not to overwhelm yourself with lots of shiny objects. Have a look at your old unfinished stuff and choose one to complete.  Decide whether it’s worth your time, and if not put it away and focus on something that is worth your time, or maybe even put all the shiny objects away for a set time to put some  perspective and balance back into your life. Learning is wonderful, but always have a look at your reasons for doing it.

Supporting and helping others and self

Notice when you or others are taking on too many things.  Leaving things unfinished, talking themselves and their achievements down. Remember to validate your own and others’ achievements. Remind each other of the successes of the past.  Remember to sit back, take some time to congratulate yourself, accept yourself as human and remember how hard you’ve worked and that you are deserving of your success.

A counsellor can work with you on these thoughts. To see it for what it is, that nagging critical inner voice from childhood telling us we’re not good enough. Imposter syndrome can cripple us and stop us from reaching our potential.

If you would like more information about counselling, please click on the contact link at the top of the page. I will reply to you as soon as I can.

In 2020 during the first wave of the pandemic I was in the last few months of four years of study and looking forward to finishing my Counselling Diploma and qualifying. Then the unbelievable happened; overnight we were not allowed to leave our homes and me and many others in education wondered how on earth we were going to complete our courses.

How was I going to accumulate the last 50 hours of client work required to become a counsellor?

How was I going to complete the remaining study sessions by the end of May?

Although I knew I could delay for another year, the thought filled me with disappointment and desperation.

It soon became apparent this wasn’t going to be a short term situation and contingency plans were soon put in to action. Weekly lessons would be online, but there was still no plan for client work to resume in any form. I remember feeling very worried until our examining board gave the go ahead to counsel clients via online video link.

This didn’t really sit that well with me, however, I was prepared to give it a try. I did some brief training on how to set up a video link e.g. Zoom/Teams and away I went.

Very few of my original clients wanted to be counselled in this way, a few wanted telephone counselling but most wanted to wait until face to face counselling started again (little did we know that wasn’t going to be until a long time later). Eventually we started to come to terms that online or telephone counselling was going to be the options whether we liked it or not.

I remember the feeling of apprehension and anxiety when I counselled my first client online. Waiting patiently whilst they tried to connect ‘can you hear me? can you see me?’ Both of us pressing different buttons and making things disappear or muting ourselves by accident, such good fun!

Eventually things became smoother and we started to get the hang of it, and I think the sessions worked quite well, except for the slight lag in speech which meant we talked over each other ‘sorry you go first’, ‘ no it’s ok, after you.’ We were so polite.

I did counsel a few clients by telephone, but this wasn’t my ‘cup of tea’ I found it difficult not knowing what they looked like or seeing their facial expressions. I was also highly aware that on the telephone we can lose our inhibitions and disclose more than we intended. I could also never be sure that the client was alone and not being overheard, and felt confidentiality could have been compromised; not to mention some clients dash for the front door when parcels were being delivered and my own dog barking in the background when deliveries were being made to my home.

I managed to complete my client hours online, and later that year enrolled on a level 5 Diploma in Counselling for Trauma with the agency http://www.newpathways.org.uk/

( a specialist counselling and advocacy services for women, men, children and young people who have been affected by rape or sexual abuse) which was also completed entirely online. I enjoyed doing this from the comfort of my own home, not having to go out on cold rainy days, but I did miss the human contact of my fellow students. However, we got to know each other well online and met up when Covid-19 restrictions were lifted.

Eventually, last year I started my own private counselling practice in Blackwood and offered face to face counselling. I remember feeling quite apprehensive about seeing clients in the flesh after so long, but after my first session I could feel myself easing back in to ‘the zone.’ For me it’s important that I see my clients subtle movements which may indicate distress, something which is more difficult on line. I also find the screen a barrier between me and my client and anyone else I’m talking to online. However, I appreciate that some clients may find it easier to open up in the safety of their own home and it may be better for those who don’t want anyone else to know they are having counselling. Clients with mobility issues may find it more convenient, although at my own counselling room https://www.blackwoodwellbeingcentre.com/ is ground level access.

Clients who are afraid to leave the house can also benefit from online counselling and it can be the first step to recovering by having some sessions online, gradually leaving their home for face to face sessions as a form of exposure for their fears.

As my colleague Kathy at https://www.blackwoodwellbeingcentre.com/ says ‘there’s something about having to get up, get showered and dressed and out to face the world that does me a power of good.’ I have to agree; on my down days (yes counsellors have them too) having my routine of going out is hugely beneficial to my sense of wellbeing.

Summing up, I feel there is a place for both online and face to face counselling. We will all have our preference as ‘one size’ definitely does NOT fit all in therapy or any other area of life.

If you feel you would like online or face to face therapy I am happy to provide either or a mix of the two.

Make that first step…. or maybe it’s a leap and contact me via the contact button above. I may not be able to answer straight away, but if you leave a message I’ll get back to you as soon as I’m free.

Many people wonder what goes on in a therapy session and how it works; and it’s not like in the films! In this blog I will try to explain and reassure that although it can seem mysterious, it is about two people sat in a room; me the counsellor and the other, the client who is experiencing some kind of distress in their life.

After someone has made contact with me either through email or phone call, I arrange a time and day that is suitable to both of us. Before the appointment, I send directions to my counselling room in Blackwood and details of how to pay and am always happy to answer any questions that may arise before our first session. The day comes, you reach my counselling room in Blackwood full of trepidation and anticipation, maybe wondering how you are going to speak to this person you’ve never met before. You press the intercom for my room, I answer and come to the door to meet you. Once you are settled comfortably in my counselling room, the first thing I do is to explain that whatever you tell me is in confidence, although there are limits to that confidence, which I would explain further. Once this has been completed the work of counselling commences.

People come to counselling for many reasons; anxiety, panic attacks, health anxiety, relationship and work problems, bereavement, anything that is making them feel depressed, unhappy and sometimes frozen with fear.

The problem could be big or small but the important thing is to have the chance to speak out loud about what is causing the anxiety, distress and unhappiness, without fear of being judged, made to feel silly or shut down. In some ways counselling is mysterious in the way it works; the client and counsellor look for clues about what is going on and maybe look at patterns from the past that are still being repeated and affecting them now. It’s a wonderful moment when a client discovers a different perspective and understanding about their problem and even more wonderful is the realisation that by talking, they have discovered their own answers.

People often ask ‘will counselling change the way I feel?’ There is no certainty but many people report feeling lighter after their first session. They also report feeling energised or even exhausted; hard work is in progress and it can be overwhelming at times. Counselling is a process and being committed to attending sessions on a weekly basis at first, seems to produce the best results. If you find yourself feeling reluctant to attend your sessions, it’s important to ask yourself why? Are painful feelings being discussed, are things moving too quickly? If you feel this, don’t be afraid to discuss these feelings with your counsellor

When we are in pain, physical or mental, we want to make things better for ourselves as soon as possible. Change can be painful and progress slow, as humans we tend to stay with the familiar even if it is no longer serving us. Progress can be difficult to measure on a weekly basis, I find it’s best reflected on after several sessions and comparing how you feel now to how you felt in your first session. Attending counselling is a time to be patient and gentle with yourself whilst you build new foundations, which will hopefully lead to a better understanding of yourself, and help you live the life you want.

I hope this explains and reassures you about the ‘mystery of the counselling session.‘ Yes, you may feel apprehensive and a bit scared before the first session, that’s natural. Please be assured that you will receive a warm welcome and that I will help you to feel at ease.

Counselling could be an investment in your future self, so if you are ready to take that first step, or maybe it’s a leap click on the Contact Me button at the top of the page. I’ll get back to you as soon as I can.

I look forward to meeting you.